The perfect body

Have you ever wondered how to define a perfect body?
With the numerous body types that exist,which can be classified as superior to another?
The truth is,the perfect body exist and its YOURS.

Most women feel unsatisfied with their God's given body type.
They tend to compare themselves with others and wish they were someone else.
No amount of bad feelings or complains will change the way you look, it will rather create a negative self image.
Your body type was designated just for you to suit God's desire when He created you. God certified your perfection before He breathed into your nostrils the breathe of life.

Whether you are a pear, petite, plum, apple, banana, hourglass etc you need to give yourself some credit because your body type is JUST FINE.
Everyone was created uniquely and differently and I've realized that the beauty of creation lies in diversity.
With this in mind, I enjoy the feeling when I remember I have no replica. Its exciting.

Most people no matter how good others say they look never  see good about themselves, others seek validation from people before they can be confident and when those validating words aren't available , they become down casted.

Listen, what you believe and say about yourself matters.
If you say you aren't good enough gradually people see you as not good at all.
What you see about yourself is what people see outside.
Is first within before without.
Your definition of yourself guarantees the picture of you people see.
If you do not appreciate yourself no body will.
If you do not love, care and invest in yourself no body will.


So, quit the self pity and embrace self love which precedes love for others.
Let go of self condemnation and refuse to cast yourself down with your words.
Rewrite your "I am " statements.
Words are seeds, when sown culminate into tangible results
What you speak with your mouth comes into manifestation in your life.

Confession
I am beautiful
I am what God says I am
I am talented
I am preserved for favour
I am love  I am kind
I am perfect
I am a success
I am above always
I am blessed

The most alluring thing a woman can have is confidence - Beyonce.
You might say what I need is thinner legs, flatter stomach, more curves, prettier face.
What you need is confidence and a better self esteem.

I believe that as you take this piece of advice seriously you will experience a better you.
See you next time.


By Idongesit Adegoke.