WHERE IS MY "MR RIGHT"?

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The clock is ticking.
The years are counting.
29 will turn 30 this year.
Mama is asking " Cecilia, " where is your Mr Right" ?
Friends pop the question, " any stable guy yet"  ?
Cecilia is weeping and asking God,
 " Father where is my MR RIGHT"?




My dear Cecilia, weep no more.
You don't weep your way into marriage.
If you desire to be found by your  " Mr Right", you have to  behave right & gather good qualities that will attract and keep him.
Makeup and nice looks can get him captivated but sure will not keep him.


Discover your potentials.
Develop and deploy them in the right direction.
Do not be idle.
Idleness reduces your worth.
Mr Right wants a productive Miss Right.
Get busy adding value to yourself.
Read Read Read
Marriage is hard work and requires a lot of wisdom, so begin your search for credible knowledge.




Live a joyful life.
Joy brings a glow on your face that makes you attractive.
Marriage is not a prerequisite for happiness.
If you're a bitter single , marriage will compound your bitterness.
So deal with it NOW.



If you're sure you have these qualities and Mr right isn't yet here.
Begin to pray for FAVOUR.
It wasn't beauty that made Queen Esther married.
It was FAVOUR.



Finally, delete that mindset of " I can't manage with a man, he must arrive, I don't want to suffer".
Do not marry material possessions, marry eternal potentials because potentials will produce more possessions.



I started out in marriage with less material possessions because I believed that the man I married has the potential to command great wealth and today, God as elevated us exceeding.
Yours might not be that way, but the point is "don't let what a man has or not have be your FOCUS".



Thank you for reading, if this article has blessed you please share with others and leave a comment.

With love
Idongesit Adegoke




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