HIDDEN PRIORITIES

Working in a telecom company couldn't be that easy for Julie, she was a beautiful single but devoted lady who has been seeking for a job for five years after gradation.
 Finally favour came her way and she started working as a customer care rep in one of the reputable telecom companies.

On a faithful Monday morning as unending calls kept coming in, her ears felt like she was having blisters as the ear piece mounted lots of pressure of them.

Her intestinal walls were singing different versions of R&B music, she thought of obtaining permission to go respond to the hunger pangs but decided to maintain some more discipline.

Her eyes were watery and almost dim for want of a good sleep, considering she barely had a good night rest the previous night because she had tons of work on her desk.

Here she was resting her head on her desk desiring for lunch time to come soon, but she just had to manage through.

Immediately the clock struck 1pm, she hurriedly found her way down the hallway to the canteen.

Half way to her destination she met Davis, a handsome tall slender gentleman, a colleague of hers, a secret admirer.
He was the head of operations. He was crazy about her but with genuine intentions though.

Then the unthinkable happened.
He drew closer to give her a hug, but she declined and got defensive.
For his rank and status at the company, that was unexpected.

What could have caused such unpleasant response?

Can you guess?
It was the  smell from his dental cavity, it was bad enough to intensify the acrobatics going on in her stomach.
He looked promising yet repulsive.
Bad breath had made his good intention sound disastrous.

The hunger pangs were gone, the desire for a good meal suddenly vanished, she couldn't handle the thought of vomiting as she imagined the taste on his tongue.
The first impression from him had left a lasting impression in her heart.

Most times we over look salient things that can create a good lasting impression about us.
In recent times, basic grooming, courtesy and good manners seem to be on a long-term sabbatical.
They've turned into hidden priorities.

Good manners have become so scarce  that whenever you see them being practiced by someone, it looks so surprising.
People now eat breakfast with unbrushed mouth and they feel its okay to do so.

Do you want to learn some good manners that can help you build good lasting impression?
Then read on.

1.Take care of potential odour areas,that is your mouth, armpit, hair, feet etc.
Little things can make great impact.
Brush your mouth at least twice a day and when you eat something like groundnut, egg etc.
If you can't brush immediately, invest in a bubble gum.
Shave your armpit and genital area often, you won't win a trophy for keeping those hairs.

2. Be conscious of your looks.
This cuts across the way you dress, how you smell and how neat you are.
The fragrance you emit contributes to your attractiveness.
Make sure you dress according to the occasion.
You create a wrong impression when you look odd.

3. Don't throw trash on the floor.

Yes, don't.
 That simple.
People who do this are termed as careless, uncivilized and dirty.
If there are no waste bins around you, hold unto the trash no matter how small until you see one.

4. Give and receive compliments  cheerfully.
Congratulate people when they are celebrating something outstanding or for their accomplishments.
Those who acknowledge other people's effort are always remembered.
Also, when people give you compliments, always respond with a smile.
Let them know you appreciate them.

5.Tame your appetite when  in public.
Have you ever seen people fight or quarrel for food in occasions? It's  irresponsible to do so.
Be contented with what you are served and eat responsibly.
If you aren't comfortable using any kind of cutlery, save yourself the embrasement and use what you're comfortable with.

6. Be polite and courteous
Always remember to use the four magic words:  please, excuse me, I'm sorry , thank you.
You can never know who you'll impress with this.

7. Avoid doing nasty things in public.
Get  up and use a restroom if you want to comb your hair, wear a lipstick, adjust your dress etc.
Excuse yourself  if you must expel offensive gas.
Stop picking your nose, spitting, or scratching your private parts in public. That’s gross.

Don't make noise while chewing and don't chew with your mouth open.
Don't keep your mouth open while picking your teeth.

8.Never invade people's privacy.
Respect peoples private stuffs like their phone, wallet, bags,bedroom  etc.
People will avoid you if they know you're under their nose all the time.

9.Be a good listener.
Don't interrupt people while they are talking.
Drop your phone when in a conversation.
Maintaining eye contact during a conversation shows you are listening and you are responsive.

10. Treat others the way you want to be treated.
Always use yourself as a test. Ask yourself: if people treat me this way, how will I feel?
Be nice, helpful and respectful even to people younger than you.

11. Give up your seat for people who needs it more than you.
If you are in a public bus or train or any where crowded, respectfully offer your seat to elderly people, pregnant women or sick people.
You might say that's extreme, but it's an hidden priority.
Its shows you're  concerned and caring.

If we all could act responsibly always, I believe our world would be a better place.
How do you make these manners your habit?
By consciously practicing them even when it's not convenient.

There are other good manners you might know that wasn't mentioned above, ,people could learn from you too if you post it below on the comment section.


With love

Idongesit  Adegoke