What Men Desire In Women.

Hey beautiful,
Welcome to this weeks publication. I believe you've had an amazing week so far.

Today's lesson is very pivotal.
I encourage you to open your heart and let the holy spirit teach you.

Being single is a blessing and not a disadvantage. It is a period of intense self discovery, development and capacity building.

That not withstanding, an average lady desires to get married.

There's nothing wrong with that at all, but you must understand what men are looking out for.

A quality woman deserves a quality man but when you analyze the kind of man you want to marry, remember that he also has his desired woman in mind.

First, let's evaluate what God expects from the man He wants to commit a family to.

1. Must have a sound relationship with God

2. Must have discovered purpose and is working in the reality of that discovery.

3. Must have a trustworthy character.

4. Must have the capacity to take care of a woman and a family.

So if this kind of man wants to get matried, what would he be looking out for?

 We don't have to assume we know what men want. Assumption is the foundation for failure.

I've gathered contributions from some of these men.
Let's take a look.

Question : What do you look out for in a woman you want to spend the rest of your life with?


  1. More of intelligence and values. Also, I really do not like an idle Woman.
A lady that works on her dreams is a catch for me.
 I do not like a woman that is lazy and do not have a plan for her life and she's not making an attempt to have one.

I went on a date with a lady once and I asked her what she will be doing the next day she said "sleeping through out".

That was a turn off for me. So yeah..
my lady should be someone without me.
 And with me she's Power.

Milton Tutu

 2. The person's physiognomy and intellectual property amongst other things.

Secondly, she should have an accommodating and a complimentary attitudes. 

And off course, she has to be God fearing and truthful.

Collins Nwankwo

3. The woman in my life now is beautiful, but her beauty wasn't what attracted me because I see many other girls every day that are also beautiful.

So what really attracted me was her calm and meek nature and the fact that she's down to earth and real.

Evalsam Ele

 4. I would want a woman with an open mind ready to learn and unlearn.Someone smart  who I'll be sure my kids will be safe with.

 A God-fearing lady with good morals.

Mr Hils

5. Be very ambitious but humble.

Intelligent, smart, team player 

Very understanding.

A good cook.

Great manager.

Above all...if she fears God all these things will be so easy to play out and they'll all fall in place.

Not a perfect woman though.

Power Umoumoh.

6. Beautiful in and out. I don't just want an ordinary lady.

I want a lady who can complement me. A lady that has a solid Christian background

Jakes 

7.  She must be born again and spirit filled.
 She should believe alike with me as far as doctrine and related matters.

 She should already have an idea of what and how she want to spend her life.
I like very self motivated people. I am really no fan of dull people.

 She should be a lover of family and have plans for family.
As far as beauty is concerned, I should like what I am seeing... different things appeal to different people.
Anonymous

8. Mentally and emotionally stable.

A great sense of humor. Teachable and

dynamic.

Fair sense of jealousy and of course hard working

Enoobong Obong

From the opinions above, you can see that every man wants a highly priced woman.

No man wants an ordinary or mere lady.

They all want something more, something extra.

So ladies it time to buckle your shoes and invest time, energy and knowledge into becoming a quality lady your Mr Right would love.

Remember your Mr Right has his list of Miss Right.

Ask the Holy spirit to open your eyes to see areas you need to make adjustments.

God is interested in making your price far above rubies but you have to be ready  to submit yourself to His tutelage, breaking and making.

Have you been inspired?

Please leave a comment or questions and also kindly share with others.

With Love 

Id-Great Adegoke