6 SIGNS WOMEN SHOW THAT MAKES THEM LOOK DESPERATE

Its no news that ladies yearn to get settled maritally between the age of 25-30, desperation tend to set in if there are no reasonable prospects.

Most ladies try to pin down a man due to pressure to get married or for some other reasons but the truth is men dislike desperate ladies.

Here are some behaviours that guys have identified that they notice in desperate ladies.

1. Melting Over A Guy:
Being overly affectionate is perceived by men as desperation.
Men know whether they deserve your love and affection or not. When a guy hasn't proven his love and you're already all out with your loving scheme, it will be taken as being desperate.

When you swim a man in your affection at the early stage of the relationship, he will soon have need for space. Don't let a guy see you as begging for closeness.

Its appropriate you let the relationship grow gradually while you allow him prove himself.

2. Excessive Calling and Texting or Spending Too Much Time Too soon

A guy told me he had this lady he got interested in, though he had not made the relationship official yet, two weeks into the friendship, the lady started calling him four times a day, then moved to six to eight times. Within a short time, he lost interest and broke things up. Her obsession dampened his interest in her.

Ladies have to understand that men need space sometimes and it's important to let your man miss and desire you and you can't do this by ringing him very often.

3. Offering Of Their Body:
Presenting your body for a guy to see how sexy and endowed you are is portrayed as being cheap and begging for love.

Real men don't go for meat that has been on public display. A man will only use and dump you when you're the one offering him sexual favours.

My point is, don't service anyone who hasn't given you their heart and that can only be done in marriage.

I know you might get upset with me but let me ask, how many of those you offered sexual favour really stayed committed to you?

You know the truth. Ladies, honour God, wait for His time. Don't drop the jewel around. You're valuable. Carry yourself as such.

4. Giving Excessive Favours  And Generosity

I know you might argue this with me but be calm. I got you.

Ladies usually tend to try to win a guy's heart and trust by throwing money and gift at them to show them they can keep a man.

Wrong call lady. Wrong call.

While its very great to be generous, the challenge with that is, you might get in the web of those who haven't earned your commitment, trust or efforts.

This attitude is often identified as trying to purchase love and every one knows that comes from a desperate heart.

The action point here is to save your love, money and gift to men who have earned your trust through the passage of time and have equally reciprocated.

5. Advetising Of Self.

In this age of social media,your posts e.g pictures explains to people your state of mind. Taking backward selfie, sexy video, wearing seductive clothes rings the bell of "I'm available.

 Bringing your sexuality to the gram or around men makes you look desperate. 

Men will actually think you are for the public.

Ladies, if you have your sexuality on display, you're sending a wrong message about yourself.

The popular quote," bad bitches always have bad relationship" is real because they market themselves to bad guys who only want them for their sex value.

Taking several seductive video and pictures and posting on the gram is a sign of a lady who wants attention and most times they get this from the wrong guy.

Ladies, let me remind you that you're the price. You were not born to be a sex tool but a global influence who will impact her world positively.

6. Asking To See His Parents Or Your Parents.

You don't need to push or pressure a guy to come see your parents or take you to his parents.

Any guy who is ready to seal the deal by walking down the aisle won't need further cajoling to see your parents and his parents.

Meanwhile note that seeing your parents or his parents doesn't in any way guarantee marriage.

So stop enforcing the process. Allow the pace to be set by the man.


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With Love
IdGreat Adegoke