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6 SIGNS WOMEN SHOW THAT MAKES THEM LOOK DESPERATE

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Its no news that ladies yearn to get settled maritally between the age of 25-30, desperation tend to set in if there are no reasonable prospects. Most ladies try to pin down a man due to pressure to get married or for some other reasons but the truth is men dislike desperate ladies. Here are some behaviours that guys have identified that they notice in desperate ladies. 1. Melting Over A Guy: Being overly affectionate is perceived by men as desperation. Men know whether they deserve your love and affection or not. When a guy hasn't proven his love and you're already all out with your loving scheme, it will be taken as being desperate. When you swim a man in your affection at the early stage of the relationship, he will soon have need for space. Don't let a guy see you as begging for closeness. Its appropriate you let the relationship grow gradually while you allow him prove himself. 2.  Excessive Calling and Texting or Spending Too Much Time T...
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13 DATE TIPS FOR LADIES

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Welcome to this week's publication. 1. Carry your transport fare (to and fro).  Try not to plan on the man's budget so you don't get disappointed. Anything can happen and you might want to dismiss the date untimely. 2. Dress decently:  Wear calm colours, wear comfortable clothes and shoes, not the ones that will make you lose your steps. Do not dress to expose your cleavage. You will be sending a wrong message if you do so. Your makeup should be moderate. 3. Tell someone you trust about your date. Make sure where you are going to and with whom is known to someone close to you. 4. Don't place excessive order for food or drinks. Even if you are very hungry, tame your appetite until you get home. 5. Eat what you are comfortable with. It's always nice to try new things but its best to avoid them if you have a sensitive stomach. Also, avoid the bones. That's not the time to crack all the bones so as to get the juice and marr...
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What Men Desire In Women.

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Hey beautiful, Welcome to this weeks publication. I believe you've had an amazing week so far. Today's lesson is very pivotal. I encourage you to open your heart and let the holy spirit teach you. Being single is a blessing and not a disadvantage. It is a period of intense self discovery, development and capacity building. That not withstanding, an average lady desires to get married. There's nothing wrong with that at all, but you must understand what men are looking out for. A quality woman deserves a quality man but when you analyze the kind of man you want to marry, remember that he also has his desired woman in mind. First, let's evaluate what God expects from the man He wants to commit a family to. 1. Must have a sound relationship with God 2. Must have discovered purpose and is working in the reality of that discovery. 3. Must have a trustworthy character. 4. Must have the capacity to take care of a woman and a family. So if this kind ...
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IS YOUR FIANCE A JUST MAN?

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Have you ever sat down to analyze the kind of man you want to say YES to? It's not enough to pray "Oh Lord, give me a husband".  In this present age, I'll say there are many kinds of husbands and one needs to be careful when making a choice. The question you should ask yourself is, what kind of husband do I want to marry? I hear pathetic stories and I wonder if some husbands have an iota of human feelings in them. Then I say to myself, " people can only express who they truly are, not who they are not". That's why a thief steals and a murder kills, because its just in their person to do so. They are just living out who they are. I know some ladies will jump at saying "he must be cool, calm and collected, he must be rich  and established". While those are cool stuff, they are not the major. When you focus on the minor and abrogate the major, you lessen your potential of achieving more. So ladies, back to the subject matte...
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THREE TRUTHS EVERY LADY MUST KNOW.

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If you are a lady reading this, CONGRATULATIONS to you because you're about to have a better picture of who you are.  If you are a guy, a new perspective of how you see ladies will be known to you. So sit tight and read on. 1. EVERY LADY IS SPECIAL TO GOD. Every lady is a perfect image of God's master craft. He specially designed you to fit His agenda and calling for your life. " Did you just say Calling" Yes I did. I know you'll say, you are not a pastor.  I'm aware you're not but you have a greater ministry. It's called the HELP MINISTRY . You were created for a big task because what you'll help in wasn't defined. It means you are to help in unlimited ways. So you see, your value is phenomenal. You are not an after thought. You are not a second class. The big guy up there saw your need on earth and sent you here. No matter the mistakes you've made in life, you are still special to God and He sees ...
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LET ME TAKE THE PAIN IN HER PLACE

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The day my daughter Sophia was born, I felt this indelible joy that made my cry uncontrollably. The kind of joy that cannot be compared to having any material possession. Nothing, I mean absolutely nothing can be compared to that "feeling". I remember the nurse saying " madam, why you dey cry when you don born finish"(why are you crying when you've finished giving birth). I believe all mothers can relate to this. As the nurse asked me to identify the sex of my baby, I heard her tiny soprano voice, her cry was like melody in my ears. When I held her in my hands, I felt like the whole world has been handed over to me to utilize, she looked so innocent and pretty. "I will put my life at stake than see anything HURT my baby", I thought to myself. Fast forward to her first immunization as a Nigerian - BCG ( Bacillus Calmette–Guérin vaccine is a vaccine primarily used against tuberculosis). My princess Sophia was extremely tender a...
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WHERE IS MY "MR RIGHT"?

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The clock is ticking. The years are counting. 29 will turn 30 this year. Mama is asking " Cecilia, " where is your Mr Right" ? Friends pop the question, " any stable guy yet"  ? Cecilia is weeping and asking God,  " Father where is my MR RIGHT"? My dear Cecilia, weep no more. You don't weep your way into marriage. If you desire to be found by your  " Mr Right", you have to  behave right & gather good qualities that will attract and keep him. Makeup and nice looks can get him captivated but sure will not keep him. Discover your potentials. Develop and deploy them in the right direction. Do not be idle. Idleness reduces your worth . Mr Right wants a productive Miss Right. Get busy adding value to yourself. Read Read Read Marriage is hard work and requires a lot of wisdom, so begin your search for credible knowledge. Live a joyful life. Joy brings a glow on your face that makes you attractive. ...
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